In prior generations most people thought they were marrying for keeps. Now it is estimated that a good 50-60% of all marriages end in divorce. In this day and age it is nothing to get married several times. How many of use have been there :-0
Connecting online gives you a chance to slowly get to know someone, hey…a lot of someones! You don’t have to do anything until you feel comfortable. As you spend time talking with people, getting to know them, you will find that you become more and more confident about yourself and taking a chance at love again.
With Valentine’s Day coming up – and yah we still feel that pang on that day – do take a chance to find love through online dating. I did and I know you can too!
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So you do not have anyone to be with on Valentine’s Day, yet, which all the ads say you should have. And you have tried to reach out to find someone at an online dating site, but so far there has been no connection, or not the right one. There is still time and trust me, this is a great time to find a love connection online!
Don’t sit alone and think that just ’cause you have not found that perfect someone, yet, that you have to be lonely during the ‘love’ season. You don’t!!
Take one more step and try a different online dating site – maybe the one you have tried is not the right one. Maybe the ‘love of your life’ is a member of a different online dating site. Remember there are lots of free membership offers from online dating sites – you can be a member of more than one.
Check out great sites here:
http://www.findyourloveonline.com/gallery-of-love-sites.htm
How do I know finding love online? I found my love online and are now married in real life – almost 8 years now!
Many of us, especially at this time of year, with all the stresses and strains of too many things to do, too little time and too little money, find ourselves in the situation of “anger” instead of “love.
To release anger so you don’t blow up at your loving partner try some of these techniques.
1. Count to 20 when you feel angry and with each breath breathe very fully and deeply.
2. Stop and take a walk for 5 or ten minutes.
3. Ask yourself, “What IS working?” or “what am I thankful for” and change the focus.
This holds true with online dating relationships, in someway even more-so, as we attempt to keep it together through the most stressful time of the year, and we all know it isn’t over yet. Love as much as you can…even if it is just loving yourself more!
Do visit http://www.findyourloveonline.com for online dating sites, reviews plus more resources.
Happy Holidays & Much Love in the New Year!
I had a message recently from someone saying one of ‘his problems’ with online dating was competition.
“Competition” is something we deal with on a day-to-day basis. Usually through work, but in our personal lives as well. What I said to him was that dealing with “competition” was basically not worth the effort, in truth.
To take a step back a bit, male to male competition is different than female to female competition. Male to male is usually a ‘rough and tumble’ or ‘money and possessions’ kind of thing. With females I think is more ‘appearance’ and ‘possessions’ and to a certain degree ‘fertility’ ( big boobs to show they can reproduce…. why do you think there are implants). In the ‘big bad world’ I do think, unfortunately, that men want money and power and women want men with money and power. Does it make either happy, sometimes, in the long run, probably not.
In my dealings with online dating sites, and love in life itself, if there is anything that I learned is most men and women want love. If you break that down, it covers friendship, compassion, similar interests, chemistry, etc. Money and power enters, for the most part, with people who are either not to comfy with who they are, and what they look like, or they believe they cannot get anyone to love them without it.
How to deal with ‘competition’, good question. I don’t think any of us deal with it well. If you have met someone online and it has been going well be all of sudden the contact fades because they have met someone ‘more good-looking, ‘richer’, etc., and you are feeling rejected and hurt, try to let it go. Easy to say, hard to do, I know. Bottom line, if it was ‘money’ or ‘good looks’ (to name a couple) then who THEY are is purely superficial. Not worth the time to type or talk.
‘Competition’ is going to be out there whether we face it in person or online. That is just a fact of life. The one advantage that each of us has is that every one of us is unique. We should rejoice in that. The person you met yesterday may not appreciate your ‘uniqueness’. The person you meet tomorrow may rejoice in your ‘uniqueness’.
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How to deal with ‘competition’, good question. I don’t think any of us deal with it well. If you have met someone online and it has been going well be all of sudden the contact fades because they have met someone ‘more goodlooking’, ‘richer’, etc., and you are feeling rejected and hurt, try to let it go. Easy to say, hard to do, I know. Bottom line, if it was ‘money’ or ‘good looks’ (to name a couple) then who THEY are is purely superficial. Not worth the time to type or talk.
‘Competition’ is going to be out there whether we face it in person or online. That is just a fact of life. The one advantage that each of us has is that every one of us is unique. We should rejoyce in that. The person you met yesterday may not appreciate your ‘uniqueness’. The person you meet tomorrow may rejoice in your ‘uniqueness’.
One of the main reasons I started Find Your Love Online was to help others looking for love, whether a new love, lost love or trying to revive the love you have. I have experiences in all 3 areas, as you can tell when you read my site.
If you are involved in an online dating membership site or were thinking of joining an online dating membership site, I wanted to share as much information as I could from my own experience, both with online dating and with moderating a chat where I was part of, and saw, many relationships build and fall apart.
So tonight I am asking, “What are you looking for?” What can I do that will make your journey easier, or what can I do to ease your fears so that you make that first step?
Depending on who you talk to, and their experience with online dating, you may get a “Yes you can” or “No you can’t” as far as finding true love through online dating.
It is so important to know what you want to find before you go to an online dating site.
First, you have to know what kind of love you are looking for to be able to find it. If you are not sure who you are looking for how do you think you can find him/her? When it comes to looking for love, I don’t think we really know exactly who we want to find. You need to sit down and really think about what it was you want in a love relationship. Take a piece of paper and write down everything you want, from visual, to interests, to habits, etc. Be as clear as you can so when you finish and look at the list you can almost see the person you are talking about. My belief is that what we find is what we “will” to us, our true love.
I found my true love through online dating and I know you can too. Check out the best online dating sites on the ‘net’, in my humble opinion here:
Start by visualizing what you do want in a mate and what you do not want in a mate. Think about those you have dated, friends you know, and even partners of those friends. What qualities do attract you? Which do you not find appealing.
Keep all this in mind when you sign up at an online dating site. What you put in your profile.
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Now is the time to STOP thinking of find your love online and actually do something to find your love online. This is one of the best times to check out an online dating site and find that special someone who is waiting just for YOU. I know you can because I found my love online and we have been married for almost 9 years now!
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